By Sir Stanley Ekezie
In recent times, I have come across all manner of people, I have interacted with men and women from all walks of life who have one challenge or the other in Marriage. By the special grace of God I have managed to save many marriages and made them stronger. In doing this, one group distinctly stands out, they are the most difficult group to deal with, it takes a while before they get to breaking point, but when they do, it’s almost impossible to get them to change their minds. This group is women who have just turned 40.
I believe the saying “life begins at 40” may actually refer more to women than their male counterparts. I have observed that once some women turn 40, something major shifts in their personality, they become bolder, more rebellious. more focused, more opinionated, and more emphatic about what they want. Don’t be surprised when a previously very obedient and submissive woman turns 40 and changes completely. At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to question some of your instructions and even the way you behave, she will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind.